Welcome to 'The Ultimate Support Group for New Wives'

Engagement tips, Wedding Planning and Marriage tips, your questions answered, useful articles and the perfect place to talk / brag about your Fiancé or husband!

This site will allow you to share and learn from experience, research and facts.

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Thursday 1 August 2013

Pregnant and Soon to be married!

I'm pregnant!!! I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'll be getting married in a month and in the midst of wedding planning I found out about this beautiful life growing inside me :)

Wedding planning can be a major job. You get hectically stressed trying to figure out what should be done, what deadline should be reached and which tasks should be allocated to who. While planning can be tons of fun, it can also be completely stressful. Stress often results in a missing period but what if it isn't actually the stress that's caused your period to vanish???
For I know the plans I have for you, Declares the Lord...

I'm really excited about this baby. He or she will be my first, our first. Somehow since I found out about my baby, I've lost most interest in wedding planning and focus majority of my attention on being pregnant and having a successful pregnancy instead.

My fiancé and I are ecstatic and can't wait to meet our little guy or girl. He or she will be arriving in March 2013.

The world of marriage in itself is extremely new, foreign and takes time to get used to. Add to this the new, foreign and even more unknown world of motherhood and I know that the next year is going to be something big for me. Non the less, I trust and believe this is all part of Gods Great Big Plan for me...


Thursday 27 June 2013

What does the ‘mother of the bride’ do?


What are the duties of the ‘mother of the bride’? What role does the ‘mother of the bride’ take?

A ‘mother of the bride’ fills basically the same role as the maid of Honor plus a little extra. Whether your biological mother, Step mother, Gran mother, close aunt or any other close motherly figure; she should be there for you throughout your new marriage experience not only regarding the wedding planning but with regard to marriage life as well.

Wednesday 26 June 2013

Free Wedding Count Down Icon / Gadget / Widget / Tool

Where can I find a wedding or engagement count down tool? How can I make a personalized wedding count down gadget / widget? Is it possible to get something that will count down the days and minutes until I get married?



Look no further! I found the perfect FREE  tool for counting down the days and hours till your big day!

Upon searching for something to aid me in counting down the hours to my wedding as well as display to the world my happiness, I found three great sites with highly customizable tools for creating your own count down. Each of these allow sharing of your new creation to the major social networks (including Facebook and Twitter).

My Count Down

My ultimate favourite is the tool at 'My Count Down'. I love this tool because it's graphics are really awesome. You can't see it that well in the screen shot below but in actuality the clock ticks LITERALLY counting down each second and the fireworks flash. it's really beautiful. Besides that, you customize the names, date and time.




Wedding Count Down Widget

This widget allows you to choose from a number of designs. Just like the tool above, it's fully customizable. It counts down the days to your big day but not the minutes and seconds like the tool above.


Nearly Weds

Newly weds, like the widget above, counts down only the days to your wedding, It's a lot smaller than the first two tools and a bit limited with regards to customizing.



All of these tools are complete MUST HAVES when waiting for your big day to arrive. If you're excited and can't wait for your wedding day chances are you're already counting down the days in your head; why not display your thoughts?  The fact that these can be shared with friends, family and ultimately the world makes it all so much more exciting!

Tuesday 25 June 2013

What is a bestman and what does the bestman do?


What is a bestman? What does a bestman do? What are the duties of the bestman?



A bestman is your ‘right hand man’. He is the one guy you should be able to say has always been there for you no matter what you came across in life and that you can trust to be there for you and make sure everything runs smoothly even on your big day. A bestman needs to be someone you’re very close to. He could be your best friend, brother or any other relative. 

Monday 24 June 2013

What is a maid of honor and what does the maid of honor do?


What is a maid of Honor? What does a maid of Honor do? What are the duties of a maid of Honor?



A maid of Honor is your ‘right hand lady’. She is the one person you can honestly say has always been there for you no matter what and that you can trust to be there for you and make sure everything runs smoothly even at your wedding. A maid of Honor needs to be someone you’re close to. She could be your best friend, sister or any other family member.

Thursday 20 June 2013

How to save money – low cost / budget weddings


How can I save money with my wedding? How can I have a beautiful wedding affordably? How can I avoid overspending on my wedding? How can I have a cheap or low cost wedding? My wedding is on a low budget, can it still be a beautiful one?


Besides the obvious cut of the guest list and conversion from a huge wedding to a small and intimate one with only 40 to 80 guests, there are a few more money saving tips to make use of when planning your wedding.

Tuesday 18 June 2013

Engaged after dating for 1 month! - How long should you wait before getting engaged / married? (Video)

How long should you wait before moving in together? How long should you wait before getting married? How long should you wait before getting engaged?
Officially Engaged
My Story:

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Engagements and weddings are the start of one of the most exciting periods of your life - FOREVER. You are ultimately making the commitment to spend the rest of your life with that one particular person. Being engaged is a new step in the right direction and getting married is the finalisation of it all. There can be nothing more exciting then starting the rest of your life together: the planning, the excitement, the happiness - it's all just amazing!

There can also be a lot of confusion, concern, anxiety and stress when it comes to the wedding planning, facing and overcoming new and foreign problems within your new marriage and understanding your new or more advanced relationship. Engagements pose decisions on how to propose, what ring to choose, how long to stay engaged, etc. Wedding planning is flooded with what to do first, where to get married what type of wedding to have, how to have a low budget wedding, family feuds, etc. Marriage itself is flooded with new feelings and emotions, new problems, life with a new person, etc.
There are pros and cons and ups and downs in every single aspect of life and engagements, weddings and marriage itself is not at all immune to these. And that’s the purpose of this blog. This blog aims to help you in every situation you may find yourself facing engagement, wedding planning or marriage wise. It aims to highlight and discuss the good, bad and everything in-between. It is also your platform to talk about, brag about or discuss your partner as much as you'd like! 

Please feel free to comment, ask questions, contribute and give your opinion.
This is a new journey, a new start and a new experience - Enjoy Every Moment!

Keep checking regularly for new information and articles.